Anyways, Today I've decided to post an "Our Love Story". How I met my handsome, pain-in-the-butt man(child). This is going to be long, I'm just warning you.
I got home from basic training the end of May 2011. My friend Monica and I were hanging out a lot when I first got home and in basic I had this revelation that I no longer wanted to chase this guy I was like head over heals for that just played mind games with me constantly. We hardly talked in basic so I took that as my sign. I had finally decided I had enough and I wanted a real relationship. Monica was also at this point. So when Monica's friend Jess hooked up Monica with this guy Joel, Monica decided to ask Joel if he had any cute friends. Now, when people ask me stuff like that I'm always like yea I have friends. I mean who am I to say if my friends are cute for said person asking. So I'm sure Joel had a couple friends rolling around in his head and he was all yeah I do! Some how Joel picked just the right person and he didn't even know me at the time. Weird. His name was Chad. The bad part? He was in the Military and stationed in Germany. My first thought was "I don't think so" but then Joel told me he thought he only had 6 months left. (HEY LIAR!) So i was like what the hell 6 months isn't that bad and who knows if we'll hit it off. Anyways, Monica sent me a couple pictures of chad and instantly, I was attracted. HE WAS HOT. But then, the insecure part of me crept up and was like "ummm I really don't think he'd go for me. He's gorgeous and I'm well...not." Of course Monica being a friend, was like "OH NO GIRL YOU GOT THIS! YOUS A 10!" (Okay so maybe not those exact words...) so I had a lot of confidence in myself at the time and I was all "What the hell. can't hurt to try!" So that's exactly what I did.
Chad and I started messaging on Facebook June 8th, 2011. We messaged back and forth for a couple days until he asked for my number so we could text and he could call. Which he did.
He had just gotten back from Afghanistan and was coming home for leave June 20th. So I knew that we had some time to talk and then hopefully meet in person and we'll just see where it goes. I was hesitant with this whole situation at first for a couple reasons:
- He was going back to Germany no matter what in a couple weeks.
- I had this fear in my head that this was gonna be one of those "hang out, get close and then BAM he leaves and never talks to me again" situations.
- And I wasn't sure that this long distance thing was for me.
The next morning he texted me basically saying how crazy his night was etc etc. He asked if I wanted to do dinner that night and I agreed. But then we just like stopped texting. So i was really confused and a little let down. I decided to go meet Monica and Joel at a nearby "swimming hole" we frequented. Joel decided to call Chad and see where he was. Turns out he was fishing (haha oops) and he had just got done and thought we had dinner plans. Somehow Chad winded up meeting us at the swimming hole. So, that's where we met for the first time. I actually got instantly shy when he got there. My anxiety went through the roof! I remember telling Monica and Joel "nevermind! Tell him to go home! I don't wanna do this!" Cuz THAT'S how nervous I was. I wouldn't even get out of my car. I had the door open and I was sitting sideways with my feet out of the car and Monica was sitting next to me and he came over and I believe Joel introduced us "officially" and I just kinda looked up and said "Hi" and looked back down. I was SOOOOOO painfully shy. And I didn't know why because at the time I wasn't like that. Like I said I was high on confidence. But with him something just made me SO jittery. Anyways, after standing around talking for a bit we all decided we'd go out to Texas Roadhouse as a double date. Monica knew that I needed a little back-up at first because I was literally melting out of shyness at this point. So double date it was! Good idea.
After the boys going back to Joel's to shower and Monica and I going back to my house we eventually left and met at Texas Roadhouse. I remember getting out of the Car and noticing Chad was cleaned up and dressed nice in Jeans and a Black t-shirt and I remember saying to Monica "Oh my goddddd" and being all giggly. We went inside and sat down. I sat next to Chad and Monica next to Joel. I didn't eat anything because when it comes to new people I'm not crazy about eating around them at first PLUS i remember not having much in my bank account and didn't want to spend it on food. So I sipped some water and we sat and chatted. I remember Chad and I playfully flirting and his hand on my leg at some point. I also remember that there was a birthday in texas roadhouse that night and you know how they tell everyone in the store to yell "YEEEEEEHAWWW" well of course the whole restaurant yelled Yeehaw at the same time i'd say about 5-10 seconds afterwards CHAD decides to yell "Yeehaw" louder than the entire restaurant. I'm thinking I turned beat read....Everyone looked our way and everyone was laughing and so was Monica and I, but holy crap was I embarrassed. But, he was hot AND funny? So far my heart was won and I was already forgiving all those weird drunk texts that once turned me off.
So eventually we finished eating and all went outside. We stood by my car for a little talking. I don't remember why but I remember Chad picking me up and throwing me over his shoulder and running with me. I'm sure I was beat red from that too. But still he was flirting, he was cute, he was funny, he was fun to be around... I was liking so far. All of us decided we didn't want the night to be over so we went up to walk along this river. I remember seeing Monica and Joel holding hands and in my mind I was like "awww wonder if chad will hold mine" but i stopped myself and remembered that we weren't together and this was the first time we had even met in person. Stop rushing yourself Danielle! But just as I finished thinking this, Chad grabbed my hand. It felt right and I could feel the butterflies in my stomach. We walked and talked. Eventually Joel and Monica split ways from us. So we walked down further to an area where we were "alone" and we stopped and he had his hands on my hips and we hugged. As we pulled away from the hug his face was down towards mine and I was looking at his lips wondering if he was gonna kiss me....And then I didn't have to wonder anymore, He kissed me. I could go on saying it was magical blah blah blah but this isn't a disney story. To me though, It was perfect and it was magical. As cheesy at that sounds. After laying in the grass kissing and playing around we decided to get up and walk back. I remember having like a million bug bites on my legs from laying in that grass. But I didn't even care because it was such a perfect night.
We went back to the cars, kissed and hugged goodbye and I went home for the night. I remember Chad texting me saying he wished I was next to him when he went to bed that night. We made plans to go on a hike and have lunch the next day and I fell asleep. The next day he texted me to meet him at best buy so I did. We went back to his house to drop my car off so we could just take his to go for the hike. I met his stepdad for the first time and all his mom's dogs. And then we went up and walked for an hour or so. Talking and walking and occasionally stopping to hug/kiss/enjoy eachother. We eventually went back to his house and watched a movie. I remember he had to go have dinner with his dad so he left and I left. But that night we stayed at Joel's other friend's house because we were going to the beach the next day. That night was the first night I slept next to him and woke up next to him. Unfortunately it was a rude awakening at like 6am so that we could drive down to the shore.
We went to the beach that day and had a great time. When we got back we said our goodbyes and I'm pretty sure all of us went home to shower. After my shower Chad had texted me asking what I was doing. I remember him saying he had sunburn and I replied something along the lines of "I'll rub some lotion on your back!" Kind of half joking and he told me to come over. So I did. After that night we hung out for the rest of that week. Monday night I left for South Carolina to go see my friend graduate basic training. I would be gone for 4 days with my friend's family and I was nervous that chad would move on while I was gone. But I had already made a commitment to my best friend at the time and went down. While I was down there I actually missed chad. And I think that was the first time I realized that I was liking him and that I wanted this to go some where... Not just a fling. I came back and that night he was going out to the bar but he asked me to stay up and wait for him so we could see each other. I stayed up late and got to his house and hugged him tight. We laid in bed together and I remember he told me he missed me too. That weekend I went to a couple of family BBQ's with him because it was 4th of July weekend. Everything was fine and I was enjoying myself but I remember I took his phone to delete a picture he had just taken of me and I saw a pic of another girl on there. (Which turned out to be just a friend that i had met! But being all emotional I just saw girl and got sad) I got instantly jealous and that was when I knew I had feelings for him and didn't want this to just be a fling AT ALL. So I did the only thing I knew how to do... I pulled away. It was stupid and looking back it could have ruined any chance of a relationship I had. He dropped me off at my house that


What a sweet love story!! You're right, he is CUUUTE! good job on snagging that one ;) hahah so happy he'll finally be home soon! that must be so exciting!
ReplyDeleteThis is so cute Danielle. You two are so cute together!
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